Reverse Culture Shock: Texting vs. Whatsapp

I’ve decided to do a series of posts on reverse culture shock, since, as you know, I’ve recently moved back to the U.S. after a long stint in Santiago, Chile.

In Chile, almost everyone who has a smart phone uses Whatsapp. In case you’ve never heard of it, it’s an application that allows you to text anyone in the world for free! It’s great. When I told my family in the U.S. about it, they were kind of like, “What’s the point?” (well, besides being able to text me while I was in Chile). I forgot that in the U.S. most everyone has unlimited texting packages. In Chile, every text costs something like 20 cents, unless you have a “bolsa” of texts (basically like a given number of free texts per month, usually around 50). Therefore, Chileans don’t text, they Whatsapp.

When I got back to the U.S., I joined my sister’s cell phone plan. I didn’t know that she had unlimited texting for all of her lines, so I was kind of afraid to text at first. “Whatsapp me, don’t text!” I’d tell everyone. Then I realized that I had unlimited texting. No more Whatsapping, except for with my friends overseas. I mean, with unlimited texting, it’s not necessary. I suppose people in the US could save a few bucks a month if they entirely switched to whatsapp, but I don’t see that happening any time soon.

I used to make fun of my brother for the number of texts he sent per month. But now I understand. I have joined the world of texting.

Check out my previous posts on reverse culture shock: 

Greetings and Goodbyes

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Reverse Culture Shock: Greetings and Goodbyes.

I’ve decided to do a series of posts on reverse culture shock, since, as you know, I’ve recently moved back to the U.S. after a long stint in Santiago, Chile. 

I’m sure I’ve posted about this before, maybe in my etiquette posts, but in Santiago, greetings and goodbyes are pretty darn important. A typical greeting (unless in a very formal business situation) consists of a kiss on the cheek if you are two women or a woman and a man, or a friendly handshake with maybe a pat on the back (pseudo-hug) if you are two men. This is done every time you see someone you know or meet someone new. And then again when you say goodbye, even if you only saw them on the street and talked for two minutes. When you go to a social gathering with lots of people, the polite thing to do is to greet everyone in this way, unless there are more than ~20 people, then you might just greet the people you know. Or, you might greet everybody.

This also applies to some extent to the classroom. When I taught English, I had some classes where the students would greet me and everyone in the class. This didn’t happen all the time, but it happened.

In general, I liked this tradition. It is warm and welcoming. There are some situations where I’d rather not have certain people touching me, but those were few and far between. The only annoying thing was in large groups of people. When I wanted to leave a party, I’d have to budget it 10-15 minutes to go around and say goodbye to everyone before I could actually leave.

In the U.S., things are quite different. There are some people who do the whole cheek-kiss greeting, some people who hug, some people shake hands, some people do an awkward wave thingy. There is no standard. For me, if I haven’t seen someone for a long time, there will be a hug involved. But for example, when I was at my parents house and my Dad got home from work, I didn’t necessarily give him a hug every time, whereas when I lived with my Chilean family and my host dad got home, he would usually go around the house and greet everyone with a cheek kiss.

I don’t know that many people yet in Raleigh, but for example I have class with some of the same people. I don’t cheek kiss them. I don’t hug them. I just say hi and maybe wave if we are far away. It seems kind of sad, but that is how it is here. If I went up to everyone and wanted to kiss them on the cheek, they would think I was, at best, a crazy peace-and-love loving hippy and at worst, really really odd. Not a great way to make friends.

One upside to not having to do this is the fact that it is (outside of today) really humid in Raleigh. At least I don’t have to go around kissing really sweaty faces!

Check out my previous posts on reverse culture shock: 

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